Belgica en La Ciudad Vieja de Cartagena de Indias.
My mother and I got back from a two week vacation in South America yesterday. We spent time in Colombia and Argentina. We’ve done mother/daughter trips before and always have a great time. However, this is our first trip since she retired. This time we had a FABULOUS experience.
It’s amazing how much her demeanor has changed since retiring. It’s almost as if she got 25+ years back. In Colombia, she reunited with a great friend after 19 years. We went to Medellin and Cartagena. She bought herself a hat, and I lent her a pair of my sunglasses. That was the beginning of this new side of her I had never seen.
After Colombia, we headed to Argentina and met up with my brother in Buenos Aires. We hung out and even did a free walking tour. During the tour, you walk across what (some) Argentine’s claim is the world’s widest avenue – 9 de Julio. Naturally, as my mother and I are trying to hurry up and cross, I suggest we take a selfie. Like I said, she never says no.
When we landed at the Miami airport on the way home, my mom told me how she remembered the first time she landed there when she immigrated from Honduras. In the last few years she’s traveled the world. An opportunity she’s certain she wouldn’t of gotten had she stayed in her homeland.
You know sometimes people teach you the greatest lessons by not saying anything at all. I just observed her. She never got tired of walking. She never said no when I’d ask her to go sit at a bar with me. She was honestly more fun than most other people I’ve traveled with!
I told my brother that being with my mom shows me it’s never too late. After this trip, I’ve learned I need to try not to constantly feel like I need to rush or am running out of time. If I can be a quarter as fabulous and fun as my mom is when I’m 60, then in reality, I will have wasted no time at all.
Victoria Moll-Ramirez is a broadcast journalist based in Atlanta, GA. She is originally from Miami, FL and had the great fortune of being raised by the sassiest, spunkiest, wisest, most hysterical Honduran woman in the world. Victoria’s mother, Bélgica, is 60-years-old, resides in Little Havana (Miami) and enjoys a good margarita accompanied by a heartrending ranchera. Victoria blogs about her mom’s funny and wise sayings on, “In My Mother’s Words.”