After studying architecture in college and landing a career in publishing because of her love of reading, Ashton Applewhite never thought sheâd be a writer. Not only did she become one at age 40, she became the first woman to get four books on The New York Times best-seller list at once.
After writing on varied topics from her divorce to inspiration for people with AIDS, sheâs now tackling the concept of ageism through the written word.
For the past seven years Applewhite says sheâs been interviewing people over 80, and who are still in the workforce. Those interviews developed into material for her next book.
ââHowâs ‘This Chair Rocks: A Proaging Manifestoâ for a title?,â asks Applewhite about her work in progress. âIt is a manifesto.â
The 62-year-old New Yorker says she was inspired by her in-laws who are themselves booksellers in their 90âs.
âI started learning about longevity,â says Applewhite. âEverything I learned was so much more positive than what I thought I knew. I started wondering why we donât know this stuff.â
The reason is, she says, is because we live in an ageist society that focuses on the negative.
âWomen start to freak out when they turn 30,â says Applewhite. âAgeism effects 20- year-olds who are freaked out because they are not fulfilling careers. That message is oppressive. Our society puts pressure on the young in a way thatâs negative. Itâs sometimes great to be young, but sometimes itâs hard, and sometimes itâs hard to be old, but sometimes it really rocks.â
She goes on to say that people are conditioned to start dreading their birthdays as they get older.
âWe look back and think, âWow, that was way better than I thought,â says Applewhite. âNow that weâre all living much longer, itâs really important to overturn these negative stereotypes.â
So thatâs what sheâs on a mission to do now.
âI would feel honored to follow in the footsteps of Maggie Kuhn who founded the Gray Panthers [at 65],â says Applewhite about her elder rights activist hero of the 1970âs. âShe was bold and radical, and put ageism on the map.â
While Applewhite is not writing her book, the grandmother of three blogs, and also works as a writer at the American Museum of Natural History two days a week.
âI work with teachers and scientists for materials for science teachers,â she says. âI have no science background. I dive into subjects I know nothing about.â
She recommends everyone take a chance.
âThe stakes are seldom fatal,â says Applewhite. âShould I have married the man I married? I wouldnât have written the book I wrote, or had the kids I had. On the other hand, it wasnât easy learning those life lessons, but Iâm not sorry I did.â